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People often ponder on one four letter word that is beyond our comprehension. You could define the word in as many dictionaries as you like, but there isn’t a definite answer to what you seek. The word love. Love, it flows so nicely off your tongue as you flick it on your top front teeth, then your tongue retreats back into the hole it hides. As if you are unsure of what you just said. Love is mystery to most. I’m not saying I precieve love, but this is my way of explaining it. The most politically correct definition of “Love” would be: The respect, admiration and longing unconditionally of another. But, sometimes if that doesn’t sail your ship you can use a more common term of love: Giving someone the power to destroy you and trusting them not to. Because there are two main words that relate to the word Love that shouldn’t, they are uncertainty, and obsession. Well they are very common terms but I’ll explain them anyway. Uncertainty has to do with someone’s lack of good judgement whether their love for someone is true or not but end up throwing the word love in the air like a college or highschool graduation cap. And obsession is another factor in love the devotees the expectancy of success in a common relationship. The more amount of obsession the greater the chances of success. But obsession has a downside. It leads to unhealthy relationships that separate reality from wonderland. And one more thing, because obsession doesn’t last forever, the end result could lead it to the word uncertainty. Simple enough love does prevail when put into the right circumstances, of course I left out physical, psychological attraction. So ill get into those. Well relationships have occurred where there is only one of the two attractions, 99% of the time or greater its physical. But inorder for a relationship to work it should require both. The physical is the hook and the psychological is the pole. You can’t catch fish without both, well you could but it isn’t ideal. But now you are probably wondering where is the string that attaches them both. Well the answer is simple, for the hook and the pole to be mended together you need the actual love. Because attraction is one thing and love is another. One thing I believe that is people that aren’t accustomed to change are the ones who can achieve love easier. Well maybe not mandate it but once in a relationship they feel love that is true easier. It’s a simple thought process, simply the person’s mindset states, everything is perfect and just like that there isn’t change wanted.

The reason why I defined love is because for the past 8 months it has been something I don’t understand completely and never will. But what I can say is I don’t loathe anyone and never will. I use the word “hate”, not often but I don’t coat it with ignorance and anger. I can’t hold a grudge, I’ve got that from my patient mother, I believe. Family, what do I think of when I hear or use the word family. I hear, bonds, indisputable, incorruptible, irreplaceable, etc (End of Thinking Capacity). Well all those words aimlessly wondering in my mind can not relate to my family. Why? Because they all secretly dislike one another. Today sparked this thought and wonder of everything again. My Sister and my cousin haven’t talked for over a year, being adults now, how could I dare call them that, but no one is leading by example now days. My some coincidence they were in the same car this morning going to the train station. Both seemed bothered by it and paid no attention to the other. And leaving to the same station I hope one of them happened to act like the adult and said goodbye to eachother or started a conversation. Sometimes I believe this kind of things are set up to convince you not to be childish and look apart from what made your relationship with eachother so bad and move on to the future. Because there is no such thing as hate, only an absence of love..